Many of us have heard that silence is gold. But actually silence is very complicated .
Though silence is useful in many ways. I have heard that u save your energy by your silence and it makes u strong internally.Silence most of the times is misinterpreted as a problem, protest or a punishment not as a time out. If you are a silent type people will label you a snob.
Believe it or not women use silence as a most effective weapon and men panic, well why wouldn't we?? How can any women run out of words?? Silence is such a paradox!!
When kids make noise people get irritated and when they become silent, they worry.And for the kids i feel its good that they irritate and play .
When women talk too much it's a problem and when they get silent men panic.
When men argue women have a problem and when they chose to be silent, women get angry.When i tell my gf that we have to reduce talking she takes it as i don't want to talk to her.
Also at my home my mom understands me without even telling her anything. And i internally feel that silence is very important but with friends u can't live with silence until and unless u have very good friend like i had in my school days.
Now whether at home or with friends or any other place we have to say things twice to be heard. Or justify our silence. Maybe we do not articulate our feelings as well as we used to or maybe silence has a different meaning now.
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dude v can b ur best frndz 2...and u see widout sharing ur feelings no one can understand the pain within u...so be a more open to us...however hard v may seem frm outside v r ur pals and hav a heart to hear ur feelings...if u ever thnk u hav sumthng to share i m there :)
thx a lot dear...
i m v.happy to knw that ..ya i share my feelings with every1 here.
but still silence sometimes seems platinum though we have to take pains for it
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